2010年6月24日星期四

Amazing Athens: Acropolis and the Best Hostel Ever

Is it one of the Mesuems in Athens?
Nope, it is at a Metro Station in the city center of Athens. I was definitely amazed by the Metro stations in Athens. They even have copies of Ancient sculpture displayed - a brilliant idea!
Before I went there, I thought the Acropolis was just a bunch of left marble columns. But NOPE, again. On seeing the dilapidated Acropolis, I was amazed again (even I myself did not know why), and I could easily imagine how beautiful and marvelous it once was. I guess it is the so-called "vibe" of the Acrpolis.
Here is the entrance to the Acropolis Museum. An amazing museum; one of the best and my favorite. With careful arrangement of its exhibits and information, the museum does a wonderful job in reproducing the sublimity of the Acropolis throughout its history. A must-go place in Athens, I would say. And a piece of good news: with an EU student ID card, one can get into all the sights of Athens for free, including the Acropolis, the Museum, the Temple of Zeus...everything.
Then I would love to recommend the best hostel I've ever stayed in - "Athens Backpackers". It is not an advertisement-it's just that I don't know how my stay in Athens will turn out if I'm not staying in this hostel. Before I went to Athens, I read so many complaints about dodgy streets, thieves, dirty city and scary at night...But it just turned out that in every city there is good area as well as bad area, and it largely depends on where you choose to stay. The Athens Backpackers is just located in a very good neighborhood - safe and nice. It's 3 minutes walk to the Acropolis Museum and 10 minues walk to the Acropolis itself. 30 meters to entrance to the metro station called "Acropolis". Probably the best location one can get in Athens, and literally "within walking distance to everything". The staff are all extremely friendly and helpful; the hostel is clean and fun - free WiFi, big living room with sofas, TV..Everything is perfect. Mostly important, we met a lot of new friends there, from the U.S., Canada, Australia... All the roommates are friendly and very considerate, and Female Dorm no.7 has meant something to us now. It is not normal to really hang out with someone you just met in hostel, but we did it a lot this time. It's fun to listen to stories of travelling in South Africa and Egypt...Different cultures and all that. So the people you meet are another treasure that travelling provides :DThe area called "Plaka" just around our hostel is a very nice area in Athens, with lots of little restaurants and lovely shops.
That's why I enjoy the time in Athens so much. Go to see the Acropolis, the Musem and staying in Athens Backpackers - enough to consitute a pleasant stay in Athens. Highly recommended, Athens is amazing :)

2010年6月16日星期三

Italy: People, Fashion, Houses & Food

If I can use only one word to describe Italy, it would be the cliched adjective - BEAUTIFUL. I can see the road is dirty, the motorcycle is howling, the traffic is heavy, the thief might be everywhere in Italy so one should be very careful (unlike in Copenhagen you can leave your bag open and nothing will happen), I still love it, enjoy it and would like to give my sincere compliments to it.

People in Italy are unexpectedly friendly. While in Copenhagen the friendliness of people is more like politeness, the friendliness in Italy is like between friends. Italian people seem to love jokes and smile a lot. I see Italian girls who work as cashier at a supermarket or a clothing store. An Italian guy comes (maybe a colleague). Then they start chatting and laughing. They both look happy and the girl does not stop her work while chatting. It looks so typical Italian. Whereas in China or in Denmark, chatting in the middle of work in front of customers may be regarded as unprofessional, it looks so normal and even lovely in Italy.

Also in Denmark, people stick to the rules and principles very strictly. But in Italy, rules seem more flexible and Italian people know how to spare to people's sensibilities. If you make a mistake without knowing it, it can be forgiven very easily. It is quite similar to the situation in China - leniency is common. It is very hard for me to judge which way is better, the Danish way or the Italian/Chinese way - they are just diffrent and both have their reasons as well as limitations.

But I should say I kind of like the Italian way of doing things, because it feels so much like home - in other words, so Chinese-style.

So far I've been to Milan, Venice and Florence. Every city is a fashion city and ideal for shopping. I also heard from my friend who is studying for her BA in Milan that "Italian people love buying famous brands." LV and Gucci bags are everywhere to be seen. Though I'm not so into fashion actually, it is still a pleasure to look at super-model-style beauties in the street.

The houses in Venice and Pisa are all lovely houses. They constitue another part of "Italian beauty".


Another similarity between Italy and China: Italy's got GREAT food, too. My observation: People who enjoy eating and pay a lot of attention to cuisines must have something in common. It's another point that makes Italy feel like home to me.
Two of my friends with ice-cream~:
My next stop is Rome. Hope that I can come up with more stories about Italy. :)

2010年6月6日星期日

6.4-6.6: JF Weekend with FSU Fellows in Eisenach~!

I went to Jena, where FSU campus is laocated, on June 3rd and joined the FSU Jenior Fellow Weekend in Eisenach from June 4th to June 6th. It was a more-than-pleasant experience and I should thank all the FSU fellows for their exceptionally warm-hearted hospitality. :D

A group photo for all four trainees of FSU:Katharina, Doro, Mareike and Mandy. ^_^ I joined the FSU fellows with their campus meeting and Culture Presentation discussion. I think the atmosphere of campus meeting is somehow very similar to ZU campus meeting - relaxing as well as informative, therefore very enjoyable to me and not boring at all. The script for Culture Presentation is a very interesting one and makes me really look forward to FSU's performance at the Symposium.

FSU fellows discussing about CP script:
I also learned that the FSU fellows' roles in the Melton Foundation are not so fixed. For instance, every batch of MFZU has the labor division of one Lead Fellow (Vice Lead Fellow), one SSP coordinator who is in charge of every SSP organization, one accountant, one public relation fellow, and one tech fellow. But in FSU, the roles are not so fixed; SSP proposals as well as other MF events such as the movie festival are largely based on fellows' personal interest and voluntary work. In ZU we also have this project-oriented feature when some new activities are to be held, but usually the clear roles are also part of MFZU's organizational characteristic.

Besides FSU campus work, the JF weekend in Eisenach also has the "bonding function". I learned from FSU fellows that they do not have a Melton Room as ZU fellows do, so there is no common place for them to meet often except for the bi-weekly campus meetings, which is a pity because spending time together in the Melton Room is considered a very good bonding tradition for all ZU fellows.

Therefore FSU fellows said this JF weekend may be a sort of compensation for the lack of opportunities to meet each other more often on campus. After the weekend, we do feel closer to each other and it is a wonderful time together. :-)
Playing Ping Pong:
Finally I would like to thank all the FSU fellows again for making all the meetings in English instead of German, as well as the pleasant stay in Jena and Eisenach, which would be impossible without your company and hospitality~Thanks a lot~

2010年5月26日星期三

Why Being Ironic? - An Outsider’s View on Danish Irony, its Functions and Effects

If one nation’s humor is characterized by irony, and most citizens of this nation agree so, then that would be a very interesting feature for an outsider to notice. When talking about Danish humor, all the Danes I have met told me that “when we speak, we use a lot of irony, which can be quite confusing if people are not used to it”.

Here leads to a very important question: why being ironic, if it makes the point even more difficult to understand? Why not just say things in a plain and then avoid possible confusions? After all, being straightforward and to the point is the quickest way to make things clear in terms of communication efficiency.

One of my Danish friends once explained to me that “I think it is deeply founded in Danish mentality to use irony”. Mentality is a very abstract concept for me, yet I believe it is correct in some sense. There must be reasons why the Danes love irony, in other words, irony must have some special functions to benefit communication.

The first function of irony, as everyone can think of, is creating a sense of humor. Irony can be interpreted as a new different way to speak about the same old thing, which is bound to create an unexpected effect if it is good irony.

Example 1.
A: “I was totally drunk last night.”
B: “What did you drink?”
A: “Just…A lot.”
B: “Like two apple ciders?”
A: “Ha-ha, no, just a glass of water.”
B: “I see. And plenty of soda and juice?”
A: “Yeah, also coffee, milk, tea and so on.”

The irony begins when B starts joking about if A has only drunk two apple ciders and got drunk. Instead of answering in a plain way, such as “no, I drank fifteen beers and a lot of vodka”, A chooses to continue the ironic conversation by saying “no, just a glass of water”, which is opposite to the truth. Then A and B both reach a tacit understanding that they will continue joking with each other by ironically listing the beverages that are non-alcoholic and cannot make people drunk at all.

This conversation demonstrates how irony can be humorous. If A and B stick to the facts, then this conversation is merely a dull exchange of truthful information; yet when they both try to be ironic, it creates a very humorous effect. Being ironic allows intellectual and emotional interaction between the two people, which can be regarded as a higher level of communication.

The second function of using irony in daily conversation is to underline one’s points. People sometimes feel that stating an opinion in a plain way does not demonstrate their attitude strongly enough.

Example 2: “The proposed budget cutbacks in the field of medical care - best idea ever.” The speaker of this statement is one of my Danish friends. He says he uses a lot of irony of this type when discussing about the economic policies of the Danish government with his friends, in order to underline how much he disagrees with those policies.

If dissent is expressed as the way it is, such as “I think it is a bad idea” or “it is the worst idea ever”, then it seems to lack certain strength that makes one’s dissent distinctive or special. The use of irony helps to draw attention to the point that one wants to emphasize by demonstrating a sharp contrast exactly between what one says and what one actually means.

However, there are also drawbacks of using irony. One disadvantage of using irony is that it is easy to cause misunderstandings. When irony is understood properly, it can create a humorous effect or an emphasizing effect; when irony is misinterpreted, it creates a confusing effect.

One day, I met a Danish friend of mine on metro on my way to university. He pointed to his head and said, “Do you like my new helmet?” I was totally confused and got no clue about what he was talking about. Then I thought it might be a kind of game of pretending some non-existent thing to be existent, like what kids like to play: holding a non-existent sword, riding a non-existent horse and pretending to be a knight of the Middle Ages. Under this hypothesis, I answered, “Yes, very much”. Later I found out I actually gave the right answer through a wrong path. What my friend meant by his “new helmet” was actually his new haircut: extremely short hair that looks like a helmet over his head. It was just lucky that I was able to keep the conversation going. Otherwise I might just stand there like a speechless stone statue.

My friends also remind me that they are very cautious about using irony to strangers: irony is between friends and people you know quite well; usually people will not start speaking ironically with someone that they have just met for the first time, because besides causing misunderstandings, irony sometimes leads to unintentional offense.

It is understandable why some people get offended by irony: it feels tough to not understand what the other person is talking about. Also some people simply do not like jokes or humor. If A just wants a plain answer and nothing like a fancy humorous joke, but B insists on speaking ironically all the time, it can be quite frustrating.

Irony is a higher level of communication both intellectually and emotionally. Firstly it requires intelligence both to create and to understand irony. One will not expect a five-year-old kid to speak ironically unless the child is exceptionally smart. Secondly irony is a kind of emotional interaction. Being able to understand each other’s irony shows that you have more in common with each other than those who become stone statues in face of irony. Interaction goes better between you and your emotional attachment toward one another grows stronger. Therefore a successful ironic conversation requires both sides to meet these two requirements of intelligence and emotional need.

Sometimes irony becomes offense because the other side is not accustomed to grasp the intelligence out of irony – it is not that he does not want to understand, but simply he is unable to; other times offense emerges due to the fact that the other side does not want emotional interaction at the moment, but simply a plain answer and some truthful information. Take the relationship between two colleagues at an office for instance, colleague A wants to befriend colleague B and that is why he uses a lot of irony to show his closeness to B (or simply A is so accustomed to using irony that he is unable to stop it). However, B takes their relationship only as that between co-workers, so when B asks a question, he expects a truthful answer not some ironic humor that makes him confused about the facts. In this situation, B will eventually feel offended by A’s supposedly harmless and well-intentioned irony. Therefore pleasant irony actually requires a suitable situation and willing participants. In the case of a formal meeting or a serious seminar, irony is more likely to lead to an unpleasant effect than a pleasant one.

To conclude, Danes have sound reasons to love irony: it has the function of creating a humorous effect (as unexpected answers can be surprisingly funny), as well as highlighting one’s point of view (by the sharp contrast between what one says and one actually means), if used properly. However, irony requires both participants of conversation to have the intelligence to create and understand irony, and also the willingness to use irony as a tool of enhancing emotional interaction and diminishing plain information exchange. That is to say, irony creates a pleasant effect on the basis of a suitable situation and willing participants; otherwise its effect may be either confusing or offensive, both of which are not so pleasant and had better be avoided.

2010年5月15日星期六

60th Anniversary of Diplomatic Relations between China and Denmark~!

May 11th, 2010 marks the 60th Anniversary of Diplomatic Relations between China and Denmark~! My friend Rachel was somehow miraculously invited to this 60th Anniversary Party held in the Chinese Embassy in Denmark on May 11th, and I went there together with her. That's why I had the chance to enjoy a great free buffet of some delicious Chinese dishes that I missed so much and listened to speeches given respectively by the Chinese Ambassador to Denmark and the Danish Foreign Minister.

Danish Foreign Minister (left) and Chinese Ambassador to Denmark (right) toasted the friendship between China and Denmark:It was a very happy experience because I had not seen and talked with so many Chinese people together for quite a while. It felt like home. I thought it was supposed to be a kind of formal celebration, but it ended up very relaxing and enjoyable, thanks to the great food, I guess. XD I believe it is human nature to be passionate about food...Regardless of nationality and gender...Very amiable Danish Foreign Minister. The Chinese Ambassador to Denmark, Mr. Xie Hangsheng, is also a very friendly person. He is from Hangzhou as wee, where ZU is located.The view from outside the Chinese Embassy:
Have a nice week~! :)

2010年5月9日星期日

May 8th: 2200 Neighborhood. Street Party

"In the name of love for the 2200 neighborhood you are all invited to an atmospheric one-day experience with everything your heart may desire." That's what the invitation for the street party online says, for more details: http://hellocopenhagen.dk/2010/05/blagardsgade-streetparty/

"2200" is the post code for that particular neighborhood in whose name this party was held. To give you another example, the post code of my neighborhood is "1366".

The street party contains DJs, outdoor bars, BBQ, and a small music festival called "Clash" containing five bands palying in a huge tent,which looks like the venue for a circus show; all of the activities were located in the street called "Blågårdsgade" and a square near the street. I think there were at least one thousand people on the street at around 11:00 p.m.

I admire the Danish people for they really know how to relax themselves - they just danced to music on the street without any shyness, and everyone could tell from their dance and facial expressions that they were enjoying themselves fully. I remember someone shouting to us "don't be shy; don't be shy". I guess we just had the word "shyness" written on our forehead and that's why everyone knew that we were being shy. It also reminds me of anthor discussion that I had with some Danish friends regarding the topic of "shyness". It seems that the definition as well as reception toward "shyness" are quite different from China to Denmark, or more generally from Asia to Europe - such as (1) how to define shyness; (2) is it a personality drawback or somewhat virtuous? I may do a mini research on it and present the result in later posts. :)

Now back to the story of the street party...Approaching midnight, the streets got more and more crowded, music louder and atmosphere of relaxation rose higher and higher. But because the camera ran out of battery, I am now only able to present you a few photos of earlier times. Hope you enjoy!
Ourdoor Bars:Flee Market:Temperature was as low as 5°C but they still enjoyed sitting outside...unbelievable!Corner of the big tent where concerts were held at night:

2010年5月1日星期六

Labor Day! :10000+ people picnic in Fælleden Park, Copenhagen

It is already May!! It is officially spring, but the weather is still very very cold in Copenhagen, around 10°C as the highest temperature. I'm told that every year on May 1st, in Fælleden Park (a big nice part in central Copenhagen), there is a big outdoor barbeque/picnic activity that may attract thousands of people. Since May 1st is the International Labor Day, parades and politic speeches about socialism and workers' welfare will "flood the town". :) It is quite interesting to me because I should definitely believe that the welfare for workers here is far better than that for workers of China. In a sense Denmark is a far more socialist country than China.Generally the traffic condition in Copenhagen is exceptionally good: easy transportation even during rush hours of the day. May 1st was the first time that I experienced traffic jam in Copenhagen because everyone at that time of the day was heading toward Fælleden Park.
May 1st was a day of great fun, except for the bad weather...It rained and became cloudy and sometimes sunny and rained again...Outdoor activity was meant to be held in great weather and under sunshine, though the weather did disappoint me. I was shivering in cold wind and drizzling rain drops, yet still so happy to be with my friends and to see how all the people in the park enjoyed themselves to the full despite the bad weather.XD